Personal Journal 9.1, 9.3, & 9.4

9.1

1. I feel hurt when you interrupt me while I am talking because I think that you do not listen to what I have to say.

2. I feel upset when you criticize because I think that you are just putting others down.

3. I feel irritated when you are late because this seems to occur often.

4. I feel overworked because I do not get assistance with the housework from you.

5. I feel annoyed because you are acting babyish.


9.3

Ashley: omnivor, waitress, christian, dog lover

1. I am an omnivor, but I do not eat raw meat or salad.

2. I am a waitress, but I am not rude.

3. I am a christian, but I am not against others that are a different religion.

4. I am a dog lover, but I do not hate cats.


9.4

1. Work
    Cause: People at my previous job were not pulling their weight.
    How I Handled It: I nicely told my fellow employees how I felt and how we could solve the issue.

2. School
    Cause: Someone hit my car door with their car door.
    How I Handled It: I told the offender what happened and asked if there was any damage if they woul pay to fix my car.

3. Home
    Cause: My boyfriend not picking up after himself.
    How I Handled It: I asked him to help me more with the housework.

I am proud of how I handled these situations. I stayed calm and positive which helped get the situation resolved.